Flourishing Update - August 11, 2021

Everyone Here Tithes, and Other Myths About Church Giving

Lori Guenther Reesor (B.Math, MTS, DMin)

The church treasurer assured me, the visiting stewardship consultant, that everyone in the congregation tithed.

I was gob-smacked. I had analyzed congregational giving for the past year. If people were tithing, this was a very low-income congregation. Their ministry model needed to change. Drastically.


Do people drive to church?

“Do people drive here?” I replied. The numbers didn’t add up. If $1,000 is a tithe, move the decimal place over to the right = $10,000 annual income. Hard to afford a car on that.


I imagine that $1,000 a year came from $20 in an envelope every week. And back in 1962, that might have been a tithe.


How much do Canadians give?

Don’t get me wrong: $1,000 in annual giving is more generous than most, it’s just not likely a tithe. $1,000 is triple what most Canadians give. According to income tax data, the median total charitable giving is $310 annually (median means half give more, half give less). And only about half of Canadians claim charitable donations at all.


If everyone tithed, here’s the estimated total giving

Median household income in Canada in 2019 was $62,900. 10% of that is $6,290. Multiply the number of church parking spaces by $6,000 to estimate total giving if every household tithed.


Of course, income varies by region and age. Giving before tax or after tax? The church treasurer assured me that people in that congregation were on fixed incomes. Everyone was giving as much as they could.


Pretending everything is fine, and other common stewardship strategies

I am not arguing for a heavy-handed tithing campaign. Not everyone can afford to give 10% to the church. Trying to guilt people into giving more doesn’t work.


What I object to is pretending that everyone tithes. Or pretending that everyone gives. In my experience, about 40% of church members don’t give at all.


Everyone tithes. People are giving as much as they can. The message I heard from the church treasurer was that they didn’t want to talk about money. Denial as a stewardship strategy was serving the congregation poorly.


It’s easier to assume people can’t afford to give more than it is to talk about money.


Jesus talks about money—we can too

Great news! Jesus is an excellent teacher about money. Jesus, an observer of how much goes in the offering, who leads a discussion on the widow’s mite with his disciples. Jesus, who proclaims that salvation has come to Zaccheus’ household after Zaccheus announces he’s giving away 50% of his assets.


Besides me and the treasurer, no one else in that meeting knew how much people gave. They didn’t know how much money the church had in the bank. Silence and secrecy around money gives money more power than it deserves.


What to do? Read the gospels. Tell stories. I have had the tremendous privilege of listening to people tell me how they learned to be generous. The story of their giving is testimony. Testimony to God’s faithfulness in their life, to their trust in God’s provision.


The church: a safe place to be uncomfortable

I pray that the church can be a safe place for money stories. Can we talk about:

  • mortgage or rent we can barely cover?

  • student loans that are older than our kids?

  • payday loans weighing us down?

Can we pray together and seek out the counsel of our fellow believers in handling money? Or bravely add death to the discussion: what about leaving a gift to the church in our will?


Beyond the numbers

We worship a generous God, giver of every good thing. What is a faithful response to God’s mercies, new every morning? It’s hard to put a number on that. The apostle Paul counselled Corinthians to give regularly and to give as God had prospered them. Still sounds like good advice today.


How is your congregation doing? Can you talk about money? Pursuing the spiritual discipline of giving is first and foremost a discipleship question: more money for the church is a nice by-product.


Lori Guenther Reesor (B.Math, MTS, DMin) combines her math, theology, and ministry background in her work. She is a writer, speaker, and consultant on faith and fundraising. Her book Growing a Generous Church: A Year in the Life of Peach Blossom Church is available through www.lgreesor.com and www.commonword.ca

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